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To All The Doubters
The Question of Proof
Although 99% of you out there KNOW that I speak the truth about the accessibility, friendliness and attractiveness of foreign women, I’ve had a few doubters question my authenticity.
So with this post I’m going to address any and all doubts that have been expressed about the matter:
#1. You want proof? Prove it to yourself!
I’m sharing with you things I’ve learned over the course of a 10-year period. I know this stuff works, because I’ve seen it change the lives of many men, but you don’t need to watch me picking up some girl in a mall to know it’s true. What I suggest is to take one trip, one vacation, one weekend, to any place in South East Asia, Latin America, or Eastern Europe, and go out into the malls, into the city, and into the bars and clubs. While you’re there you will most likely notice that the women are more flirtatious, and numerous, and if you approach, you will have better results then what you get back at home. All of you doubters out there, should go and give it a shot, and then when you come back as a converted global dater, then you can get my book and find out WHY foreign environments and foreign women are so different in the first place.
#2. You want proof? Ask a someone else!
I’ve said this before and I’ll say it again. Find someone in your social circle that has traveled to one of these regions and ask them about the women. Better yet, find a guy that has lived down there. Don’t take my word for it, ask someone else. Most likely, any guy that has traveled outside to what I like to call the “lower tiers” has noticed a few of the things I point out in my videos and books. Now, you won’t get as in depth an analysis as I’ve done in my books, because I actively broke this stuff down over several years and analyzed and tested everything to get to this point , but you will get an agreement that the dating environment favors the males in these parts of the world.
#3. The proof is in the book.
If you would actually take the time to read my book, you would realize that I back up all my information with facts, and a lot of data. I’m not just spewing out random information; I actively broke down the social dynamics of both upper and lower tiers to come up with my global dating revolution book. Every guy that has read the book, has said they’ve gotten their money’s worth. I sell the book for $27, but I believe the information and knowledge that the reader gets is easily worth 10 times more, if not priceless, and the overwhelming positive response I’ve gotten from the readers leads me to believe my assumption is right.
#4. The point of my videos are to show you the beauty of foreign women
One of the points I make in my book is that, for various reasons, the lower tiers are filled with more attractive women that the upper tiers. My videos are an attempt to portray this fact by showing you the beauty of women in places like Brazil, Costa Rica, and Colombia.
#5. You don’t want to believe me? Be my guest, stay where you are and we’ll talk in 10 years and see if you’re ready to try out something new.
Hey if you want to stay in LA, or Chicago, or wherever you are and keep chasing after your local women there, be my guest. But as for me and the thousands of readers of my blog, we know where the real action is! You can have LA, me and my guys will gladly take Medellin Colombia and Belo Horizonte Brazil. If you don’t want to hear me out and give my advice a try, you’re the only one that looses out.
#6. Yes this is a business.
Yes, I have left my normal full time job to pursue a new career as a global dating adviser and author. Yes, I want to sell my book, but I do so in an ethical manner. My approach is to give you as much free material as possible, that provides you with value. I feel I’ve given hundreds of dollars in value through my blog and videos and in return, if you’d like to learn more about global dating you can pay $27 and get the book and get even more value. As I’ve said before, every guy that has read the book has had nothing but great reviews.
Now having covered all of the objections I’d like to say one thing. I’m open to the idea of video taping some of the approaches I do in public places while I’m in Latin America. Right now, as you may know, I’m living in Barranquilla Colombia. I only see two problems with this, as of now. First of all, all of the approaches will be in Spanish or Portuguese (If I'm in Brazil). So if you guys don’t speak the language, you won’t know what the hell I’m saying. Another problem is that I don’t have the equipment to do this. I’m going to have to purchase a small wearable camera, and a wearable wireless mic so that I can capture everything in the interaction. It’s something that I’m open to, and I’ll look into, but regardless of whether I actually tape any approaches you should have more then enough proof just by taking your own trip, reading my blog and book, and asking other people, even other people on this blog.
Later,
Although 99% of you out there KNOW that I speak the truth about the accessibility, friendliness and attractiveness of foreign women, I’ve had a few doubters question my authenticity.
So with this post I’m going to address any and all doubts that have been expressed about the matter:
#1. You want proof? Prove it to yourself!
I’m sharing with you things I’ve learned over the course of a 10-year period. I know this stuff works, because I’ve seen it change the lives of many men, but you don’t need to watch me picking up some girl in a mall to know it’s true. What I suggest is to take one trip, one vacation, one weekend, to any place in South East Asia, Latin America, or Eastern Europe, and go out into the malls, into the city, and into the bars and clubs. While you’re there you will most likely notice that the women are more flirtatious, and numerous, and if you approach, you will have better results then what you get back at home. All of you doubters out there, should go and give it a shot, and then when you come back as a converted global dater, then you can get my book and find out WHY foreign environments and foreign women are so different in the first place.
#2. You want proof? Ask a someone else!
I’ve said this before and I’ll say it again. Find someone in your social circle that has traveled to one of these regions and ask them about the women. Better yet, find a guy that has lived down there. Don’t take my word for it, ask someone else. Most likely, any guy that has traveled outside to what I like to call the “lower tiers” has noticed a few of the things I point out in my videos and books. Now, you won’t get as in depth an analysis as I’ve done in my books, because I actively broke this stuff down over several years and analyzed and tested everything to get to this point , but you will get an agreement that the dating environment favors the males in these parts of the world.
#3. The proof is in the book.
If you would actually take the time to read my book, you would realize that I back up all my information with facts, and a lot of data. I’m not just spewing out random information; I actively broke down the social dynamics of both upper and lower tiers to come up with my global dating revolution book. Every guy that has read the book, has said they’ve gotten their money’s worth. I sell the book for $27, but I believe the information and knowledge that the reader gets is easily worth 10 times more, if not priceless, and the overwhelming positive response I’ve gotten from the readers leads me to believe my assumption is right.
#4. The point of my videos are to show you the beauty of foreign women
One of the points I make in my book is that, for various reasons, the lower tiers are filled with more attractive women that the upper tiers. My videos are an attempt to portray this fact by showing you the beauty of women in places like Brazil, Costa Rica, and Colombia.
#5. You don’t want to believe me? Be my guest, stay where you are and we’ll talk in 10 years and see if you’re ready to try out something new.
Hey if you want to stay in LA, or Chicago, or wherever you are and keep chasing after your local women there, be my guest. But as for me and the thousands of readers of my blog, we know where the real action is! You can have LA, me and my guys will gladly take Medellin Colombia and Belo Horizonte Brazil. If you don’t want to hear me out and give my advice a try, you’re the only one that looses out.
#6. Yes this is a business.
Yes, I have left my normal full time job to pursue a new career as a global dating adviser and author. Yes, I want to sell my book, but I do so in an ethical manner. My approach is to give you as much free material as possible, that provides you with value. I feel I’ve given hundreds of dollars in value through my blog and videos and in return, if you’d like to learn more about global dating you can pay $27 and get the book and get even more value. As I’ve said before, every guy that has read the book has had nothing but great reviews.
Now having covered all of the objections I’d like to say one thing. I’m open to the idea of video taping some of the approaches I do in public places while I’m in Latin America. Right now, as you may know, I’m living in Barranquilla Colombia. I only see two problems with this, as of now. First of all, all of the approaches will be in Spanish or Portuguese (If I'm in Brazil). So if you guys don’t speak the language, you won’t know what the hell I’m saying. Another problem is that I don’t have the equipment to do this. I’m going to have to purchase a small wearable camera, and a wearable wireless mic so that I can capture everything in the interaction. It’s something that I’m open to, and I’ll look into, but regardless of whether I actually tape any approaches you should have more then enough proof just by taking your own trip, reading my blog and book, and asking other people, even other people on this blog.
Later,
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By the way all,
I've posted a ton of genuine authentic testimonials for Global Dating here. Check it out. All the testimonials are sourced and linked to the full version of it.
http://www.happierabroad.com/testimonials.php
I've also posted these incredible life changing accounts from guys who discovered that dating is all about location, location, location, just like real estate. See this page.
http://www.happierabroad.com/ebook/Page74b.htm
Those two pages will make a believer out of you all. For sure!
Winston
To any doubters here:
If any of you doubt Global Dating, visit my website HappierAbroad for total proof in the form of videos, pictures, testimonies, deep articles, etc. All of it is genuine, which you can tell. I also have an extensive new FAQ section now. I am not even afraid to show my picture on my site, like most global daters. It will make a believer out of you for sure. Just visit the content on my home page, starting from top down. It's irrefutable.
http://www.happierabroad.com
To Dan:
Hey bud, we haven't seen you in our forum for a while. Feel free to stop by and share your new experiences in Latin America.
http://www.happierabroad.com/phpBB2/index.php
Btw, would you like a forum of your own under my domain name? If you don't have one yet, I'd be willing to set up one for you under my domain.
Thanks,
Winston
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I don't really get this stuff it just sounds simialr to the PUA crap that's around. NOt hating bro, do your thing but in my opinion, wouldn't it be easier to just:
...get out there and socialise, whether a mall, a restaurant or bar/club. Just approach these women and talk. Can't be that hard if you are content with yourself and have confidence. What's the worst that could happen, you're in another country no one knows you. If you seem genuine then natural human instinct will get the trust of the women.
I don't particularly wanna waste my time chatting online with chicks from a country if I were them I'd never trust me in a million years!
I met a brazilian girl here in Sydney by simply talking to her and asking for her number. Yes she was a waitress but she was that beautiful that I'd have tried my luck approaching her if it was somewhere else too. We've been friends for 2mths, are becoming close and when she goes back in July I might go and visit soon after. It's much much harder to gain that rapport with someone online.
Not saying it can't be done. But in order to jump on facebook etc and just chat to a random hottie and play it cool and then get to a point where u wanna meet up with them in person when you visit requires lots of patience.
I'd much rather go there and and get my ass on Copacabana beach and just be heaps fun and meet ppl. If they wanna fuck then great, if not then just get a fucken hooker. Pussy is pussy. If I want a wife it sure as hell aint gonna happen in a 2 week trip!
Hi Dan,
I cannot imagine a more disrespectful action than surrepticiously recording your encounters with these wonerful Colombian women...Please don't do it!
It would only serve as a form of voyerism for these jerks who won't accept what you are suggesting. Colombianas are way above this sort of thing, and I woul expect the same from you. Please don't cheapen your image or the image of American men by doing this.
Be a man, an keep your encounters PRIVATE!
BR,
Bill
Hello Dan,
I have to agree with Bill. There are enough ugly Americans taking clandestine pictures and posting them on the internet, please be above that.
Peace and good luck,
Brad
Hey Dan,
You need to learn the "4SW" rule of sales: Some will... Some won't... So what?... Someone's waiting! Don't waste your time with non-believers: Non-believers never believe, which is why we call them, well..."non-believers!!!"
I'll be visiting two women in Cali, two in Barranquilla, one in Bogota, and one in Medellin in the last two weeks of July. We've been talking nightly since December on Skype. I taught them English, and they taught me Spanish. All are 10's, are college educated, are under 36 y.o. (I'm 48), none are divorced (all single, though), and all want to one day have children and a family but are disappointed with Colombian men. All are eager to go dancing salsa with me (I've practiced for a year...).
I anticipate returning to the US with a smile so broad that I won't care who is a believer and who isn't. Right now, my biggest problem is that in the next year, I will want to cut this list of six down to one special one for potential marriage (like these girls, I also want a family...)! Already, I've cut perfect 10's from the list for minor reasons. You have discovered gold, my friend...Gracias!!!
BC
Keep up the good work Dan, I admire what you are doing, it seems that you are having such a great time over there.It's not easy to leave all behind and go live in another country by yourself, I know cause I've done it.Don't mind guys that keep doubting you, especially this guy that keeps writing bad comments about you on the blog, there is no point in explaining all of this to him.Keep doing what you are doing, live your life to the fullest, have fun and let doubters keep talking while you are enjoying the Colombian lifestye ;)
Listen up. I bought the book . Was it worth the $27.00? Hell no. It sucked. I spent 2 weeks in Brazil and I used the techniques described in the book. I still found myself alone with my hand in my hotel room each night. Don't buy it. It's a scam.
-Regret
There is NO WAY that a reasonably normal American guy can keep from getting lucky in Rio...or anywhere in South and Central America really! Even in Peru, where there are more men than women, it is incredibly easy to secure and enjoy some spectacular female companionship.
If this fellow is 4'2" with one eye in the middle of his forehead, hasn't taken a shower in 8 years, wears his underwear over his pants, and farts frequently and indiscriminately, MAYBE he could be unsuccessful...and that's a very big maybe. If this is the case, he should go directly to Angeles City in the Philippines...those women don't care.
Hey Dan,
I hope you give this guy his $27 dollars back. He sounds like a charity case... pathetic!
BR,
Bill
Hey,
Sorry it didn't work out for you. I'm wondering if you really applied everything you learned in the book? Did you use the Internet first to setup dates before you left on your trip? Did you try and learn some Portuguese before you went to Brazil? You are the first person to give me a bad review. I have hundreds of emails from guys who have applied the information in my books and have gotten great results. Sadly no matter how good the information and knowledge is, every situation is different. Nothing works 100% of the time for 100% people. However, I find it hard to believe that if you REALLY applied all of the information, strategies and tactics in my books that you would have the results you had. If you can explain what exactly went wrong on your trip maybe we can see where things went off track.
Dan
I pitty the fool.
I have dated women from foreign countries and what you are saying is dead on. It's kind of like the old saying, "the tall beanstalk is at risk of getting chopped" You are "taller" than most people and people are jealous because of that....What they don't realize is they can be "tall" too and have the kind of success you are...But you know, what? Let them live in their world of self pity and keep doubting you...Everyone with half a brain knows you are right.
Keep up the good work.....And don't waste your time recording any of your encounters. People don't believe you? Who cares? They're just afraid, or can't afford the vacation...Those aren't the type of guys you should be worried about explaining things to.
Keep on keepin on
Doing is believing.
Dan I congratulate you. You have done what a lot of people only dream of.
Dan,
We have to talk. You are obviously bothered by resistance. You are misunderstanding some of us. You know, us, the ones you claim to be 1% of doubters. I see your side of it, but you must be able to see ours. We are not looking for a homemade porn movie. We are just looking for at least some freakin interaction. As my comrade said, no more leering over balcony's and stalking behind bushes. Please don't tell me that at $27 a pop you don't have the funds to have a small hidden camera. This is the weakest excuse. It is very easy to film the whole thing. Now you say language is the problem. Dude, you sound like a politician. Have you ever heard of subtitiles. You have this site of which you obviously put alot of time into, you could surely input some subtitles. Come on man. I agree with you that it is easier to pick up more attractive women in these countries. I have been to Brazil. If you are serious about shutting up the doubters, all you need to do is show us a video of you interacting. You said you were open to it. Does that me you will do it or you are just saying it to get off the topic? I am particularly interested in the Colombian footage. You are there now. It is a perfect chance. So what you are saying is that I will find the proof where?..ohhhhhhh, in the book that I have to purchase for $27. I see now.
I have a suggestion. You mentioned something before about house parties. I have a SPECTACULAR IDEA. If you are down to prove yourself as the ultimate dating guru, once your are established, throw a house party and invite all of the people that helped to fund it. You know, the people who buy your $27 book. But for real, you know only a few would make it, but this would show you are for real with your game. It's not like the whole world views this site. You are not going to have humdreds of people coming to your place. But I'll tell you, I would do my best to come and then I would buy your book. I have to go and sleep now, have to be ready for my date tomorrow night with another Brazilian hottie. Peace.
Sincerely,
Wanting to support you