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Over the years, through traveling and interaction with foreign women I've realized that there are many differences in the way they act, think, and carry themselves. Foreign women aren't as guarded, they're more friendly for the most part, are more prone to be family oriented. In this article and video I list some of the differences I've noticed about foreign women.
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Is there really a difference between the women of most advanced and economically developed nations (Australia, U.S, Canada, Western Europe - I'll refer to all of these women as "American women" for the sake of clarity within this article) and those of the developing nations (Latin America, Eastern Europe, South East Asia - I'll refer to all of these women as "foreign women" throughout this article)? I firmly believe, as many other men do, that there are some deep rooted differences.
In many respects these foreign women are giving American women a run for their money. Many men are flocking to marriage agencies, international dating sites, and embarking on trips to foreign lands in search of romance with these foreign women. Marriage between foreign women and American men is at an all time high, and growing each year.
So what makes these foreign women so different from American women?
#1. Foreign women tend to have more traditional, old fashioned values. The type of values that many American women had back in the early and mid 1900's. In many ways, these old fashioned values have been lost with American women. Much of this is due to the women's liberation movement. Although this movement brought about many positive changes for women, it also sacrificed many of the old fashioned, family oriented, values and placed women's primary focus not on the family, but on their career. Foreign women tend to put their family first, before anything else, even their careers. In a sense many of these foreign women are not unlike the grand mothers and great grand mothers of the current generation of American women.
#2. Foreign women tend to stay in shape much more then American women. There is no doubt that the wealthiest countries are suffering from an obesity epidemic. Many studies have shown that women more prone to gain weight then men. In the United States for example, women are more more prone to be obese even at young ages. This is not only a health issue, but it robes these women of their feminine curves. Foreign women don't have this problem. They maintain their feminine curves even into their 30's and 40's.
#3. Foreign women treat men better then American women. One small example is the fact that many foreign women love to cook for their man. It's not uncommon to find women that love to cook not only for their partner, but for their entire family. Foreign women don't see these types of acts as burdens, or forms of submissiveness. On the contrary, they see these types of acts as privileges, and it solidifies their roles within the relationship (and family) as a nurturing and caring figure.
#4. Foreign women are less materialistic. Foreign women who have grown up in less developed countries not fallen prey to the consumer-driven mindset many American women (and men) have been indoctrinated into. They've learned to get by on much less. They've probably sacrificed material things throughout their life, and they've learned to cherish and care for the things that really matter. In this way, foreign women are much easier to please when it comes to materiel wealth. On the other hand, many men find it hard to please American women who have become accustomed to a certain level of material wealth.
#5. Foreign women love North American, and Western European men. Just as foreign women treat men better then American women. American men treat foreign women better then their local men. Many of these foreign women have to deal with men who don't appreciate them, cheat on them, and an environment that favors men in many ways. American men are a much welcomed change for foreign women, because they treat them better on many levels. It this sense it's a match made in heaven because both parties treat each other better then what they are accustomed to.
#6. Foreign women are more open to dating older men. It's not that uncommon for foreign women to date much older men within their own culture. My mother was 10 years younger then my father. I've known foreign couples where the man was 20 years older then woman. The popular Mexican artist wrote a song title "40 and 20" (40 y 20 by Jose Jose). It was a love song about a 40 year old man who was dating a 20 year old woman, you can find it on youtube.
With the advent of the Internet, it's getting much easier for American men to meet and correspond with foreign women. Foreign women have never been more accessible then they are today and for many American men, like myself, they have become the better option. This is not to say there aren't women in the United States or Western Europe who have all of these qualities. There are many good, old fashioned women, who take care of themselves here as well, but I've found that all of the these women are already committed and taken.
So there you have it. Let me know what you think, I welcome all comments and feedback.
Regards,
Dan DeLa Cruz
Over the years, through traveling and interaction with foreign women I've realized that there are many differences in the way they act, think, and carry themselves. Foreign women aren't as guarded, they're more friendly for the most part, are more prone to be family oriented. In this article and video I list some of the differences I've noticed about foreign women.
WATCH THE VIDEO:
READ THE ARTICE:
Is there really a difference between the women of most advanced and economically developed nations (Australia, U.S, Canada, Western Europe - I'll refer to all of these women as "American women" for the sake of clarity within this article) and those of the developing nations (Latin America, Eastern Europe, South East Asia - I'll refer to all of these women as "foreign women" throughout this article)? I firmly believe, as many other men do, that there are some deep rooted differences.
In many respects these foreign women are giving American women a run for their money. Many men are flocking to marriage agencies, international dating sites, and embarking on trips to foreign lands in search of romance with these foreign women. Marriage between foreign women and American men is at an all time high, and growing each year.
So what makes these foreign women so different from American women?
#1. Foreign women tend to have more traditional, old fashioned values. The type of values that many American women had back in the early and mid 1900's. In many ways, these old fashioned values have been lost with American women. Much of this is due to the women's liberation movement. Although this movement brought about many positive changes for women, it also sacrificed many of the old fashioned, family oriented, values and placed women's primary focus not on the family, but on their career. Foreign women tend to put their family first, before anything else, even their careers. In a sense many of these foreign women are not unlike the grand mothers and great grand mothers of the current generation of American women.
#2. Foreign women tend to stay in shape much more then American women. There is no doubt that the wealthiest countries are suffering from an obesity epidemic. Many studies have shown that women more prone to gain weight then men. In the United States for example, women are more more prone to be obese even at young ages. This is not only a health issue, but it robes these women of their feminine curves. Foreign women don't have this problem. They maintain their feminine curves even into their 30's and 40's.
#3. Foreign women treat men better then American women. One small example is the fact that many foreign women love to cook for their man. It's not uncommon to find women that love to cook not only for their partner, but for their entire family. Foreign women don't see these types of acts as burdens, or forms of submissiveness. On the contrary, they see these types of acts as privileges, and it solidifies their roles within the relationship (and family) as a nurturing and caring figure.
#4. Foreign women are less materialistic. Foreign women who have grown up in less developed countries not fallen prey to the consumer-driven mindset many American women (and men) have been indoctrinated into. They've learned to get by on much less. They've probably sacrificed material things throughout their life, and they've learned to cherish and care for the things that really matter. In this way, foreign women are much easier to please when it comes to materiel wealth. On the other hand, many men find it hard to please American women who have become accustomed to a certain level of material wealth.
#5. Foreign women love North American, and Western European men. Just as foreign women treat men better then American women. American men treat foreign women better then their local men. Many of these foreign women have to deal with men who don't appreciate them, cheat on them, and an environment that favors men in many ways. American men are a much welcomed change for foreign women, because they treat them better on many levels. It this sense it's a match made in heaven because both parties treat each other better then what they are accustomed to.
#6. Foreign women are more open to dating older men. It's not that uncommon for foreign women to date much older men within their own culture. My mother was 10 years younger then my father. I've known foreign couples where the man was 20 years older then woman. The popular Mexican artist wrote a song title "40 and 20" (40 y 20 by Jose Jose). It was a love song about a 40 year old man who was dating a 20 year old woman, you can find it on youtube.
With the advent of the Internet, it's getting much easier for American men to meet and correspond with foreign women. Foreign women have never been more accessible then they are today and for many American men, like myself, they have become the better option. This is not to say there aren't women in the United States or Western Europe who have all of these qualities. There are many good, old fashioned women, who take care of themselves here as well, but I've found that all of the these women are already committed and taken.
So there you have it. Let me know what you think, I welcome all comments and feedback.
Regards,
Dan DeLa Cruz
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Guys! the bottomline! it is too easy to meet women from the countries mentioned by Dan. Ive been to DR, Panama, and Brazil ( I was in Rio last week). It's not as hard as you think it is too pick up women in those countries. Remember that you have nothing to lose and you may never see them again! Think about it like that! Also know the language and your life will be much easier there!!
Dan,
I have to commend you on this sentence you wrote about American women: "There are many good, old fashioned women, who take care of themselves here (in the U.S.) as well, but I've found that all of the these women are already committed and taken. "
YOU ARE COMPLETELY RIGHT!! That's been my experience, too! Most of the beautiful women in the U.S. are already committed, and if they're not, the competition from other men is ferocious!!
Keep up the good work! I think you're onto something, Dan.
Edwin
It seems like dating in the U.S. is approximately 100000x harder here given the LACK OF OPTIONS, right guys? all the beautiful women are TAKEN!!!
Ummm...no. PRETEND they're taken, maybe.
Foreign women are much better overall. I'm an American living in Canada. I've been overseas lots of times like China, Japan, and Taiwan and East Asian women in my experience and many guys experience says are much better than North American women. In fact, North American women living in East Asia have trouble finding dates or any relationship with any men and in some cases if these women are married/attached, their husband/boyfriend leaves them for East Asian women. I for one have a Taiwanese gf.
Here's an article that looks like not only most Chinese men are not going for expat Western women but even expat most Western men don't want them when in China.
http://www.chinadaily.com.cn/china/2006-11/11/content_730390.htm
I look forward to go to Taiwan and China early next year. Forgot to sign myself as I wrote my response about foreign women in East Asia.
Anyone who has experiences in East Asia like Taiwan, China, Japan, Hong Kong, Korea and I would like to hear from any of you.
Regards,
Evergreen
I've been to Taiwan, Japan, and Thailand.
Taiwan is a breathtaking country. Wonderful weather, and very upper class!
There is LOTS to do there :)
The women are pretty, but not BEAUTIFUL like they are in Thailand :) Still its about 100000 steps up from America's lack of females :) The guys are very feminine, so walking around makes you feel like a man's man :D
(btw, Taiwan's prettiest women are in Taipei. If you are going there expect to see some smokin hotties)
and wierd as it sounds i wasn't that impressed with Japan.
happy travels my friend.
Sure foreign women are somewhat more approachable (especially the ones from the lower classes) but they are still pretty much like any other women anywhere else in the world. I have lived in the Middle East for 8 years and have been living in Southeast Asia for a bit over 3 and I can say that foreign women not only have the same BS, but its even worse if you date some gal from a village. But if you want to date a gal from the middle and upper classes then they are just like western gals (well, that tend to take more crap than a western woman would)
Most guys think that foreign women are better than western women because they hang out in gogo bars where the girls act like you are a king or they pick up on hot but very poor girls that are looking for a way out. After dating them for a wile they come to see that they have to deal with the same old BS, sometimes even more.
www.ExpatRockstar.com
I don't know about all that. Foreign women are more approachable but they're also molded in a certain way, by an environment that favors men. I think this is the main reason why they're so different. I even date foreign women when I'm back in the United States, and I can definitely tell the difference, so I can't say that I agree with your point of view.
By the way, whenever I'm traveling, I almost never go to go-go bars etc. and it's simply because there are so many available women who are extremely attractive and available that the thought often never even crosses my mind.
Sure, but when you are overseas do you go after women that have their own houses and a car? Or do you go after women who make 500 bucks a month?
If you go after the latter (like I tend to) you wont see allot of difference between foreign women and women in the west
Now don’t get me wrong, I am not hating on you or totally disagreeing with your post. I just think that the “foreign women are soooooo different form western women” is a myth – in fact I think they are worse in many respects.
Great site BTW
Sorry – not latter,
I meant to say I go after the ones that own there own house and car and have good jobs or come from upper-class families
Sleepy, lol
Guys,
I live in Russia and I walk the walk just like Dan and Winston.
Any man who still lives in San Jose, California, needs to get his head examined and it does not matter that so many high paying jobs are in San Jose, California. It is just not worth it to live where the pickings are slim.
Having said that, it is still the case that not ONE American man has yet taken the simple step of walking into a federal courthouse to challenge and quickly get overturned the IMBRA law that Bush signed in January 2006.
IMBRA is a feminist-inspired and religious-radical inspired law that completely blocks all foreign women who wish to communicate with American men via telephone or snail mail or direct via one of their email addresses. IMBRA demands that all American men who wish to contact a foreign woman via a dating website that mainly introduces Americans with foreigners (illogically defined as a "marriage broker") be background checked to include every state they ever lived in and the names of any children and marital history and any DUIs etc.
IMBRA steals the Constitutional Right to Assemble and the right to Internet anonymity that the Supreme Court decided was sancrosanct in the CDA Case 10 years ago.
The worst part of IMBRA is the clause that says that, once you wish to contact a woman you see online, she has to read your background and sign in writing that it is OK for you to contact her (even saying hello online is considered "giving out personal contact information").
This clause takes away the foreign females right to broadcast her own contact information to the world if she wants to. On Match.com and the adult dating sites and craigslist the foreign women do this all the time...but these sites are exempt because their "primary business is not introducing Americans to foreigners".
I have a challenge written but I am not in a situation where it would be easy for me to fly back to the USA tp challenge this publicly. We need someone who is willing to walk into court and give his real name and know he has an independent income so that the radical feminist groups cannot hurt his career, etc.
The owners of these dating sites should be the ones who challenge this legally or at least email their databases until someone is found who will do this.
But, because IMBRA slows down the meeting process, the few American owned dating site owners only pretend to hate the law. Why should they pine for the days when a woman's address was $12 and many men just spent that $12 before getting on a plane and meeting her himself.
Or else, like Cherry Blossoms, they brazenly do not comply with this law anymore than anyone bothered to comply with the Mail Order Bride Act of 1996 (MOBA forced all dating sites to provide the foreign woman with a pamphlet explaining her rights should she ever decide to get married to an American guy she might, in the future, meet on the dating site).
So, with dating site owners at best pretending the feminists are not trying to close them down (the upcoming TVPA law will close them down if they do not wake up) the impetus has to come from men who fully realize that the feminists are getting away with the equivalent of murder: the women you never met because the law kept them off dating sites (they did not have an email address or never read email to that address after someone put their profile online) could have included the love of your life (along with some of the greatest sex of your life).
You can read more about IMBRA by going to OnlineDatingRights dot com or by doing a Google search for IMBRA and feminism, making sure you help edit the Wikipedia article which is guarded by feminists who spin it like it is a reasonable law.
You guys who like foreign women cannot hide your heads in the sand anymore because the Hillary Clinton Administration (Obama is not really president) is seriously pissed at all men who would date younger women from other countries.
She will contiue the policy of declaring all this to be "sex tourism" and equate that as synonymous with "human trafficking".
I am not exagerrating the threat here. She will do this as surely as the sun rises in the morning. IMBRA could be defeated in 3 days via a restraining order that never gets lifted.
Jim Peterson
Veterans Abroad
www.veteransabroad.com
Hi Dan and all,
This is Winston of HappierAbroad.com. My site has the same theme and mission as yours. For all those interested in foreign women or happiness overseas, come see my site at http://www.happierabroad.com
My site contains thousands of photos, hundreds of stories and testimonials and fan letters, and a forum where you can talk to other guys who are convinced that foreign women are the way to go. I also have a 400 page ebook, and a mountain of evidence to back up my claims that foreign women are better.
My photo collages of my dating life abroad contains photos of hundreds of friendly beautiful women I met overseas. You can see my collages starting at:
http://www.happierabroad.com/ebook/Collage.htm
And the link to my forum is at
http://www.happierabroad.com/phpBB2/index.php
All are welcome!
Regards,
Winston
Dan, by the way, in addition to your reasons above for dating foreign women, see my 6 advantages of dating foreign women that I summarized here:
http://www.happierabroad.com/ebook/Page52.htm
You will love it I'm sure.
I love where your head is at. Great points!!